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Wednesday, October 11, 2006

The Perfect Life(for a girl)

Many times in a girl's life,she daydreams of how perfect her life should be.We daydream about many things,some are feasible, while others are almost always impossible.

It is not a crime to daydream,if anything, it is healthy to do so,it helps you to put your mind and rest from the hustle and bustle of everyday life;it gives you a sense of false security from the harsh realities of life. Now what are those things a girl normally dreams about?
-that she were Miss World

-that she would have the perfect wedding

-the perfect man who would always buy her flowers,jewelry,take her out for candlelit dinners,ay the right words,bring her breakfast in bed,tell her "I love you" every minute, call her on phone whenever he is at work.

-live in a mansion that looks like paradise

-own the best cars

-have maids and stewards who will attend to her every whim and caprice.

-always look like a million bucks even after waking up from sleep.

-own a private jet

-have the best collection of designers' wears.

-be friends with those that matter

-have two adorable little daughters that she can dress all up in beautiful girly clothes.

-eating icecream and other "junkfood" without thinking of the extra weight.

All these and more are the things a normal girl dreams about.It is not bad to daydream,but you know all these things could be brought to reality.How? Hardwork. You want a rich,handsome man? Have in mind that that rich man also wants a lady who will not be a liability to him.No right thinking man will come to marry a secondary school certificate holder who is waiting for any available ready made man to latch her sorrows on.If anything,he will look for a woman that can rub minds with him,a woman that can hold an intelligent conversation( I tell you this is a rarity), a woman that can hold her own among his freinds and among others without feeling intimidated.
Ladies, it is time to stand and do what is right to get what you want.Everything in life carries a price tag. If you set high standards for others around you, make sure you also live upto those standards, even above. Nothing is impossible to those that dare. Dare to achieve, the sky is your starting point.

9 Comments:

  • At 8:51 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    Well said Snazzy
    I agree with u 100%.
    of course no man will want to marry a secondary school certificate holder who will only sit and cross her legs in his parlor making herself a liability to him.

    A man needs a woman that can rub minds with him all the time.

     
  • At 10:15 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    At long last. Yipee, we're blogging again!

    What about having the perfect Prince Charming who never does any wrong? The 'happily lived ever after' myth seems to be a permananent fixture in most ladies' daydreams...

     
  • At 12:15 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Snazzy,
    not seen ya in ages. U used to mail me those good old days. But I guess i'm sounding like a history teacher. U r really spot on about finding a girl who can sustain an intelligent conversation. They really are a RARITY! Love ur blog though. keep ur head about u, and be good, 4 ur own good. Ciao!

     
  • At 4:51 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Its all a matter of attitude.

     
  • At 3:17 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Your blog space is really pretty. And your thoughts are really creative, if you ask me, you have talents that the movie industry can benefit from. I came accross your blog on nairaland. Mail me sometime, I cant discuss this on blog...

     
  • At 9:20 AM, Blogger Naijainformat said…

    This is absolutely true, I agree with u, thot i was the only one that daydream most of da time, gud to know it's healthy

     
  • At 5:11 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    Nice 1 lovelysnazzy,
    Nice blog - Nice Stuff
    keep it up* -
    xx

     
  • At 5:12 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    Nice 1 lovelysnazzy,
    Nice blog - Nice Stuff
    keep it up* -
    xx

     
  • At 3:55 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    huumm....
    very intresting, there are some issues i want clearified, some of the things u wrote about, are they real stories or fabricated, honestly i have a lot of things in mind for you, but as soon as i get that i will let you knoe cos the world really need intelligent people like, and stop been lazy.
    you can reach me @ tommybabson@yahoo.com
    cheers.

     

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