The Perfect Life(for a girl)
Many times in a girl's life,she daydreams of how perfect her life should be.We daydream about many things,some are feasible, while others are almost always impossible.
It is not a crime to daydream,if anything, it is healthy to do so,it helps you to put your mind and rest from the hustle and bustle of everyday life;it gives you a sense of false security from the harsh realities of life. Now what are those things a girl normally dreams about?
-that she were Miss World
-that she would have the perfect wedding
-the perfect man who would always buy her flowers,jewelry,take her out for candlelit dinners,ay the right words,bring her breakfast in bed,tell her "I love you" every minute, call her on phone whenever he is at work.
-live in a mansion that looks like paradise
-own the best cars
-have maids and stewards who will attend to her every whim and caprice.
-always look like a million bucks even after waking up from sleep.
-own a private jet
-have the best collection of designers' wears.
-be friends with those that matter
-have two adorable little daughters that she can dress all up in beautiful girly clothes.
-eating icecream and other "junkfood" without thinking of the extra weight.
All these and more are the things a normal girl dreams about.It is not bad to daydream,but you know all these things could be brought to reality.How? Hardwork. You want a rich,handsome man? Have in mind that that rich man also wants a lady who will not be a liability to him.No right thinking man will come to marry a secondary school certificate holder who is waiting for any available ready made man to latch her sorrows on.If anything,he will look for a woman that can rub minds with him,a woman that can hold an intelligent conversation( I tell you this is a rarity), a woman that can hold her own among his freinds and among others without feeling intimidated.
Ladies, it is time to stand and do what is right to get what you want.Everything in life carries a price tag. If you set high standards for others around you, make sure you also live upto those standards, even above. Nothing is impossible to those that dare. Dare to achieve, the sky is your starting point.
It is not a crime to daydream,if anything, it is healthy to do so,it helps you to put your mind and rest from the hustle and bustle of everyday life;it gives you a sense of false security from the harsh realities of life. Now what are those things a girl normally dreams about?
-that she were Miss World
-that she would have the perfect wedding
-the perfect man who would always buy her flowers,jewelry,take her out for candlelit dinners,ay the right words,bring her breakfast in bed,tell her "I love you" every minute, call her on phone whenever he is at work.
-live in a mansion that looks like paradise
-own the best cars
-have maids and stewards who will attend to her every whim and caprice.
-always look like a million bucks even after waking up from sleep.
-own a private jet
-have the best collection of designers' wears.
-be friends with those that matter
-have two adorable little daughters that she can dress all up in beautiful girly clothes.
-eating icecream and other "junkfood" without thinking of the extra weight.
All these and more are the things a normal girl dreams about.It is not bad to daydream,but you know all these things could be brought to reality.How? Hardwork. You want a rich,handsome man? Have in mind that that rich man also wants a lady who will not be a liability to him.No right thinking man will come to marry a secondary school certificate holder who is waiting for any available ready made man to latch her sorrows on.If anything,he will look for a woman that can rub minds with him,a woman that can hold an intelligent conversation( I tell you this is a rarity), a woman that can hold her own among his freinds and among others without feeling intimidated.
Ladies, it is time to stand and do what is right to get what you want.Everything in life carries a price tag. If you set high standards for others around you, make sure you also live upto those standards, even above. Nothing is impossible to those that dare. Dare to achieve, the sky is your starting point.
posted by lovelysnazzy @ 10:09 PM
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